Monday, March 15, 2010

Foreplay in the Strip Club

This question is for both the men and the women, “Do you have a problem with your mate going to the strip club as a form of foreplay?” I have been told several times that this is one of the best places to go to have foreplay because once they get home it is on and popping.

When I say foreplay, I don’t mean physical contact or sexual activity in the club, but the visual effects of it all. I have been told that it arouses the sexual desires to have sex with their mate. REALLY?? Personally, I just don’t buy this shit, sorry! Because I feel as though if you want to be sexually aroused then it is my job to get you to that state, not some random chick you wish you could bang! I am not saying I have a problem with my man going to the club and hanging out with his boys, do you, but make sure you’re not doing anyone else in the process, you feel me?

I think this is just some malarkey that men (and some women) use as an excuse to go to the club and fantasize and unfortunately sometimes do more. My point is when you come home and we are getting busy, who are you really thinking about, the stripper on the pole, or me? Please don’t answer that question, but I think I know the answer.

True story, I have a friend who said for her man’s birthday she took him to a strip club and for his gift, well let’s just say she had a female stripper do things to her that pleased her man so much that when they got home that night they had the best sex ever. WTF??? Now, I think this is a whole other topic to blog about separately (trust me and I will), but apparently couples do this kind of thing to add spice to their sex life.

So do you oppose your mate going to the strip club to get his/her foreplay on? Do you encourage or discourage it? Do you participate and go with him/her. Do you find it sexy or demeaning, or perhaps insulting?

I personally rather pull out the stilettos and the one piece and star in my own show from start to finish I don’t need an opening act, I like to be the only star of the show.

I’m just saying…

C Double R!


  1. As a frequent solicitor of the gentlemen's club, I see nothing wrong with this. They are working women that are supporting themselves through college and they need our help :-)

    To address the topic, there is nothing wrong with getting a stiff one at the strip club, as long as you take it home to the misses. Strippers are for fantasy purposes only. Don't stress the small stuff with concerns of him getting it on in the VIP club. I don't see too many fellas trying to wife anyone in clear heels.

  2. And WHO is the girl in the pic??

  3. @ TrueMan. Ok to each it's own, but I rather be the one in the clear stilettos while he makes it rain. I don't have a problem with a man going to the club every now and then but don't use that itsh as an excuse for foreplay, because I think I can handle mine in that area.

    I'm just saying.
    An by the way, don't know the girl in the pic, sorry playa:)

  4. Chanel, I totally agree with you. There is no reason why my man should be frequenting the strip club! Yes, I should be the one to make it rain!

    LOL @ the clear heels!

  5. Tondi, stop hatin'! He's just looking! That's all. Like Chris Rock said, there's no sex in the champagne room. Let him go have some fun.

  6. If I was married to a woman who was the size of a damn shaved she-bear, yea; let me go to the strip club first! You might need me fantasizing about the chick on the pole in order to get your ovaries popped that night...