Sunday, January 30, 2011

Being Satisfied Without Having The Big “O”!

Fellas, I know you love it when you can make a woman have multiple orgasms. However, if she doesn’t have one doesn’t mean she didn’t enjoy it. Most men measure whether or not a woman was satisfied sexually by how many times he can make her have an orgasm, but is this a good barometer to use to find out whether or not a woman is satisfied sexually?

For most women it’s more about the connection that she has with a man rather than the number of times she has an orgasm. Not to say it’s not exciting having the big “O” but women can also have a great sexual experience without them.

Most people don’t know that a woman can actually climax without having an orgasm. Just because a woman doesn’t “release” doesn’t mean she didn’t climax. I think men confuse the two when they don’t see “proof” of a woman’s climax. For some women it is very difficult to have an orgasm, but that doesn’t mean she doesn’t enjoy the sexual experience. I have heard women say that they have never had an orgasm, but they still love having sex.

The body responds differently to different people when it comes to sex. A woman may not have any orgasms with one partner and have ten with another partner and consider them both to be great lovers. It goes back to the way a woman connects with a man mentally, emotionally and physically that makes a man a great lover. On the other hand, it could be just pure animal attraction between a man and a woman that makes her body have numerous orgasms when they are together sexually.

So men don’t feel bad if your woman doesn’t have the big “O” every time you two are intimate, just focus on her body language and her response to you sexually which are great indicators on whether or not you are pleasing her sexually.

I’m just saying.

C Double R!

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