Wednesday, December 3, 2014

Never Take Someone You Care About for Granted

Ladies or fellas have you ever dated a person and they always thought you would be available to them no matter what? Yes, you all vibe and have a great time and see each other when you see each other but never no commitment.  But we ALL know this situationship can’t last forever. Eventually someone is gonna catch feelings and will want to take it to the next level. So what do you do?

I personally believe closed mouths don’t get fed. If you have developed feelings for someone you would only be cheating yourself if you didn’t address it. At least by addressing it you will have an answer either way. But please be prepared for all possible answers. If you get an answer that you are not happy with then you need to make the decision on whether or not this is something you want to continue. 

Unfortunately, sometimes you have to walk away from someone before they can truly appreciate you. I had a girlfriend who had to do this very thing. She was dating a man on and off for several years and when she was ready to get serious he wasn’t so she dated him until she couldn’t anymore. She met someone and was in a relationship for several years and when that ended she somehow relinked up with the previous guy and he explained to her how it hurt him to see her with another man and he always thought he had time with her and he realized he didn’t. They have since married and been happy for years now.

This outcome is not always typical, usually once a ship sails it’s gone. So my advice would be if you care for someone don’t wait until someone else snatches them up to confess your feelings to them. Confess your feelings when you have them or discover them or you could end up being that mouth that doesn’t get fed.  

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