Wednesday, July 25, 2012

Is swinging more natural than monogamy?

There are only two species that are monogamous by nature. That is the killer whale and the penguin and they are both black and white. So therefore, there is no gray, it’s either black or white. It’s either you are or you’re not. The human species by nature was not born to be monogamous. Monogamy is a trained art and something that has to be constantly worked on because it is not a natural ability for humans. Which leads me to this question is swinging more natural than monogamy?

I believe most women are better at being monogamous because we are naturally emotional creatures and we usually have to have an emotional connection with a man before we become intimate with them. Men on the other hand are physical and lustful creatures by nature therefore it’s easier for them to become intimate with a woman without getting emotionally attached to them.

Swinging is more popular than most think. It’s becoming more acceptable in some relationships because not only does it keep the relationship exciting but in most cases it avoids the inevitable, cheating. If both partners are willing to participate in swinging in order to keep the flame alive in their relationship and to avoid outside cheating then who are we to judge them?

Is swinging more natural than monogamy? I believe from a natural perspective, yes. Most may not agree and I am not saying I condone or participate in swinging but I understand why couples choose to participate in it. It could possibly eliminate the outside cheating and it keeps the relationship appealing. If both partners like it, I love it!

I’m just saying.

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Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Being Big Doesn’t Guarantee the Gig!

Ok, so I was on Facebook the other day and one of my friends had a conversation about the power of sex. Basically he stated just because you know how to please your man in bed doesn’t mean he won’t leave you or cheat on you. Boy, did this start a conversation. So of course the ladies responded by saying just because you’re well-endowed and can lay pipe in the bedroom doesn’t mean that a woman won’t leave or cheat on you either???

Look, maybe back in the day if a woman got sprung out on good sex that was a license for the man to do as he pleased because he knew she wasn’t going anywhere. Now fast forward 20 years later, most women don’t tolerate that stuff, some even flip the script on men these days. If she has a man that can lay good pipe, but that’s ALL he can do, trust, she will have others to make up for his deficiencies. She will have one that can wine and dine her, one that will take her on vacations, one that will fix things around the house, and one that can offer to pay her bills. Notice how I said “offer” to pay her bills. Most women today can pay their own bills and are quite self sufficient, therefore, she doesn’t need a man to pay her bills, but will gladly take donations.

Nowadays women categorize their men like they categorize their shoes. If she feels like being wined and dined then she will call her Manolo Man. If she needs to have something fixed around the house she will call her Timberland Man. If she feels like getting freaky she will call her Come Sex Me Pumps Man. Women are quick to categorize and compartmentalize a man just like men do. So men, don’t think that just because you are laying good pipe that your woman won’t step out on you or close the door completely, WAKE THE FREAK UP!!

Forget the 90’s woman and start thinking about the new millennium woman!! Yes, we are no longer staying on the porch, we are stomping with the big dogs! We are doing it for ourselves and doing it big by ourselves! So don’t let the big penis fool you, because if that is the only thing you are offering, best believe, she has you categorized as the Come Sex Me Pumps Man and will only call on you when she is ready to get freaky, but your ass will stay in that size 9 shoebox until then!

I’m just saying…

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