As we start the New Year we often think about new resolutions to achieve for the year. We make resolutions to get rid of our vices from stop smoking, losing weight, living a healthier life, saving money, finding a new job and buying our dream home. But how many of us make resolutions to improve our personal relationships? How many of us make a vow to get rid of our bad habits when it comes to our relationship?
Ladies you know what I’m talking about, that bad habit that you just can’t seem to shake. He’s about 6’1, gorgeous smile, handsome, dark and has incomparable skills in the bedroom, but outside of that he’s pretty much useless to you. But for some reason you can’t seem to shake him.
Fellas, what about your bad habits? She’s build like an hourglass, face of a top model and looks great on your arm but outside of that she’s just a damn liability? However, you continue to keep her around because she’s a great trophy in the public’s eye.
As we get older and start to realize that life is more than great sex and a pretty face we are less likely to partake in these kinds of relationships. We may entertain them once and a while but less frequently and for a shorter amount of time. This is when we realize that relationships are more about compatibility and sustainability.
When you realize that you have more years behind you than in front of you this is when you start to get serious about whom you are willing to spend the rest of your life with or at least learn what things you are willing to tolerate and the things that you are not.
Since we are still in the first week of the New Year it is still time to revise your resolutions and start getting rid of those bad habits that you weren’t able to shake in the past. Ask yourself is this someone I can see myself getting old with or someone who will be there for me when I deserve it the least but need it the most? You know the answer.
I’m just saying.
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