Sunday, January 27, 2013

Ladies, Stop Being the Pit Stop and Learn to Be the Final Destination When it Comes to Men

Some women constantly ask themselves how did I end up in this situation again. How come I am never the main woman, but always the side woman? I am a caring loving woman, but why do I always give my love to the wrong man? Because you ALLOW it! Period!

Only a fool will continue to make the same mistakes and expect different results. If you allow a man, or anyone for that matter, to take advantage of you then they will. We have to learn to man up and be a woman. We have to stop letting men mistake our kindness for our weakness.

Here’s a little advice, when you meet a man make sure you are asking the pertinent question, therefore if anything every pops up he can’t ever use that excuse “Well, you never asked!”. You should always ask a man from the gate these five important questions:

Are you Married?

Do you have a girlfriend?

Do you live with anyone?

Do you have any baby momma drama?

Are you bi, tri or straight?

If you ask these five important questions and the answers rolls off his tongue, whether you like the answers or not then that’s a good sign because for the most part at least you know he’s an honest man. If he hesitates to answers these questions, proceed with caution or turn around and walk away. This could mean he has something to hide.

However, if a man is straight up with you and tells you that he is married or has a girlfriend and you still get involved with this man than shame on you and you are free to label yourself a “pit stop”. A pit stop meaning he comes to you to replenish himself and to get re-energized so he can make it to his final destination, his main woman. You are solely a Pick-Me –Upper in route to the main destination.

So ladies, if you are tired of being a pit stop then stop allowing a man to refuel, get new tires and mechanical repairs and adjustments at your emotional and physical expense in route to his final destination.

I’m just saying.

C Double R!

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