Men Are Territorial Creatures Who Like to Roam Outside Their Territory!

This article is dedicated to someone I know. You know who you are.

We all know that men are territorial creatures, but most men like to roam quite frequently outside their territory. However, they like to keep their possessions (women) well within their parameter. When I say possessions I am referring to their mate, love one, wife, fiancée, girlfriend, woman, better half, however one would like to define a man’s significant other.

I read the other day that Sean “Puffy” Combs threaten to kill one of Kim Porter’s male friends if he didn’t stay away from her. Now let’s break this down, shall we. Puffy is known for his philandering ways and for not marrying Kim Porter, even though she is the mother of 3 of his children. She has repeatedly stood by this man’s side while he has had relationships with Jennifer Lopez and Cassidy, just to name a few. So who is to blame for his behavior, Kim or him?

It is known that he pays Kim very handsomely for the children and also gives her extra loot to keep her as a “kept woman”, with one stipulation, she can’t fool around. Apparently she condones this behavior because she has been in the background for years and it looks like she will always be around, never as the leading lady, but always as a supporting cast member.

I guess when it comes to money one may never really know how they might respond to certain demands placed upon them. But I have to ask the question, “What about self pride and getting a damn backbone?” What example is Kim setting for her children, especially her two beautiful daughters when she allows herself to be used as a doormat?

Women, I said it before and I will say it again, KNOW YOUR SELF WORTH! Because if you don’t acknowledge it, embrace it, and enforce it, then no one else will. Always remember you have the power and no one can ever take it away from you unless you give it away!

I’m just saying.

C Double R!

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Do Social Media Networks Cause Problems or Uncover Them in Relationships?

“Facebook ruined my relationship, I found out my boyfriend was cheating on Twitter, I hate social media networks because they create relationship problems!” These are some of the things I am sure all of us have heard from someone who uses social media networking sites. But the question is, “Do Social media networks cause problems or uncover them in relationships?”


I have to go with the latter. I believe they uncover existing problems in relationships. I don’t think social media networks change people actions they just make them more pronounce. What was once done in the dark will be revealed in the light, and social media networks my friends is the “light”.

Social media networks are not the only “frenemy” to cheating mates, but so are cell phones. With cameras, videos and everything else that is attached to cell phones today could make a recipe for a disastrous outcome for cheating mates. It’s your friend when you want to communicate with your mistress, but it’s your enemy when your mate discovers your communications with your mistress via the social networks or cell phone. This goes for women too, not just cheating men.

So, again in my opinion, I think social media networks bring the dirt to the forefront and make it harder for the “cheaters” to hide their cheating ways. Also, for you cheaters, if you don’t want to be put on blast I suggest you don’t have your mistress as a friend on your social media network page and for pete sakes please do not take compromising photos that can eventually end up on social media networks or delivered to your mate’s cell phone!

I’m just saying.

C Double R!

How To Tell If She or He is Just Not Into You!

Ladies, men too, do you only get a phone call when your mate is feeling frisky and needs to release some tension? Or always have an emergency and they need you to come get them, loan them some money or take them somewhere, but don’t need you to stay? If you answered yes to more than one of these scenarios consider yourself as being used!


Do you find that you are the one that is always giving and not receiving ( sexually, emotionally, physically, and monetary)? The only one who goes out their way to do something nice for your mate? Or the only one that is fulfilling your partner’s needs and it is not reciprocated? Again, consider yourself as being used!

Does he or she always seem to make up excuses as to why they can’t do anything for you, such as they can’t come get you because their car is down, they can’t help you out financially because they don’t get paid until Friday or they have child support money due, or come up with an excuse to break a date because it’s their turn to pay? Need I say it again, consider yourself as being used!

If they are always coming up with excuses for you to give them money, or you all have a joint bank account and you are the only one putting money in it and they are always taking money out of it, close that damn account immediately! Take charge of your life and stop trying to buy love.

I said it before and I will say it again, read the signs people. A relationship is all about reciprocity. If you find yourself always the one giving and never receiving then it’s not a relationship it’s a charity and guess who is making all of the donations? You!

I’m just saying.

C Double R!

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Loved Up, But Not Wifed Up!

Ladies have you ever fell into the “wait until” trap with your man? Wait until I finish school, wait until we buy the house, wait until I get the promotion, wait until I get my divorce? Yes, women will actually stay with a man for years even though she knows he is still married in the hopes that one day he will get a divorce and marry her. Why do so many women fall for the “wait until” game?


The kicker is when the man says “I’m not going nowhere and neither are you so what’s the rush?” WTF!! Are you serious? That’s even more of a reason for him to put a ring on it! A woman will stay with a man for years, have babies for him, buy a house with him and he will never marry her you know why? Because she has already given him everything that a married coupled give each other which mean he doesn’t have any motivation to marry her. I’m just saying!!

Ladies stop playing house and stop putting the cart in front of the horse, make him work for your love. Put your foot down and if that means that you have to remove yourself from the situation to make him realize how lucky HE is to have you as his woman then do it! This is easier said than done, but in the end it is all worth it because at the end of the day you will know if the whole relationship is really worth your time and energy and if that man really loves you like he says he does.

If you are good enough to “portray” the image of the wife by living together, having kids together supporting him emotionally, spiritually and even financially then you should be good enough for him to put a ring on it and make it official and be called the Mrs. and not my lady, girl, love of my life, girlfriend or fiancée!

There is a huge difference between being the Mrs. and the girlfriend/fiancée. When a man introduces his woman as his wife there is an instant respect factor from other women as oppose to him introducing her as his lady or fiancée. Here’s some real talk, if you have a good man and other women know it and if you are not his wife then they see him as “still available”. If you don’t appreciate your worth and don’t make him wife you up then another “smart” woman will because she knows her worth just like she knows his.

I’m just saying!


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C Double R!

REACTIONS Is Finally Here!

If you love erotic suspense novels then this is the book for you!

I am excited to announce my erotic suspense novel REACTIONS is now available. This is a book that deals with relationships, abnormal sexual behaviors and broken marriages. The book really breaks down the reason why every action has a reaction!

The characters of the book are based out of the Philadelphia area. The three main characters are Shameka Nicole Williams, Tracy Marie Jackson and Christopher Jamal Johnson.

Shameka Nicole Williams- a savvy, sexy businesswoman who secretly loves having sex with strange men in strange places and has no interest in settling down. When she starts having the same reoccurring nightmare she seeks professional help. What Shameka learns will change her life forever.

Tracy Marie Jackson- Shameka’s best friend since kindergarten and the sweet girl next door. She’s married to her successful college sweetheart, Eric Jackson, runs a non-profit organization, lives in a million dollar condo in downtown Philly, Tracy has the perfect life or so it seems. The only thing that’s missing is a child. Just when things are going as planned tragedy strikes that rocks Tracy’s whole world.

Christopher Jamal Johnson- the retired NBA player turned ESPN sportscaster. He’s married to his college sweetheart, Tina Johnson, has two beautiful children and is trying his hardest to leave his past behind, but this is proving to be the toughest challenge he has ever faced in his entire life. Can Chris gain the courage to put his philandering ways aside and become the faithful husband his wife always desired or will someone from his past prevent him from doing so?

REACTIONS has been getting great reviews. Here is what some of the readers had to say:

“C Double R is definitely the new Zane on the block! REACTIONS is a sexy well written novel that captures your attention from the first page to the last” – Sandi Burgis, author of Feelings Flow

“I read this book in one night! It kept my interest from the beginning to the end! I can’t wait for REACTIONS II next year!” – Lisa W. from Los Angeles, CA.

See for yourself. Get your copy now! Go to www.cdoubler.com . If you’re in the Philadelphia area please come join me at my book release party at 7165 Germantown Avenue Lounge, 7165 Germantown Ave, Phila., Pa. 19119 on Sunday August 7, 2011 from 6pm to 10pm. If you have any questions please contact me at cdoubler2@gmail.com.

Hope to see you there!

I’m just saying..

C Double R!

C Double R’s Could Have Been Worst Theory

A lot of people always focus on the worst when it comes to unfortunate situations instead of counting their blessing, especially when it comes to relationships. Let me explain C Double R’s Could Have Been Worst Theory.


The Could Have Been Worst Theory is when you take a bad situation that you have experienced and compare it to a much worst situation, then count your blessings and keep it moving. For example, you may feel embarrassed and hurt if you found out that your mate/spouse was cheating on you. However, if you compare your situation to a person who found out that their mate/spouse was cheating on them and produced three children that you didn’t know about with this person you should count your blessings it’s not you and keep it moving!

Another scenario is if you found out that your mate/spouse blew all of the bill money on gambling and now you’re facing foreclosure. Compare your situation to a person who’s mate/spouse blew all of the bill money on gambling and drinking and take it out on you by physically abusing you. Count your blessings it’s not you and keep it moving!

I think some people are so focused on the negative in certain situations that they never see that it could have been worst. I think if we started to train our minds to adopt the Could Have Been Worst Theory a lot of people would be better off and could recover quicker from a bad situation, especially when it comes to our relationships.

Besides what don’t kills us only makes us stronger so when you find yourself in a bad situation just remember “it could have been worst”.

I’m just saying.

C Double R

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Confident or Thirsty?

Nothing is funnier than seeing a good looking man acting thirsty. What’s funnier is when he doesn’t even know that he is acting thirsty. It’s one thing to have confidence but when does confidence turns into thirstiness?


Women love a confident man, a man who knows how to approach a woman and who is tight with his game, but when he becomes overly aggressive things can go to the left, quickly. When he starts to oversell himself and repeatedly tells you all of the things he can do to you and how he’s going to do it and how you’re not going to get enough of him. Really? This is when he gets put in the thirsty category.

Men, no woman wants to hear what you can do for her, to her or with her, she just want you to be like Nike and Just Do It! When you continuously try to sell yourself to a woman it becomes a turn off real quick and no matter how attracted she is to you this will definitely turn her off. So fall back and let nature take its course. If a woman is feeling you, trust me, you will know because she will let you know by her actions. She will also let you know if she is not feeling you when she stop returning your calls and starts making excuses to not go out with you. If and when it comes to this point, this means she is not interested and if she was at one point, she is no longer interested and it is probably because of your thirstiness.

It’s good to be confident in yourself and your skills, just don’t become thirsty with your approach because trust me, a woman will definitely leave you high and dry and will not give you anything to quench your thirst.

I’m just saying.


C Double R!

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You Can't Force a Man to Change. PERIOD!

Today’s topic is all about change! Ladies, have you ever met that man and all you can say is “ Damn, he would be a good man only if..?” If he wasn’t such a womanizer, more caring, more giving, not so uptight, etc. One thing I’ve learned is that people will change because of one or two reasons; when there are ready to change or when they are forced to change. Example, if a man gets tired of sleeping with different women every night and having meaningless sex then he will eventually change his habits. If a man loses something that he really, truly cares about but doesn’t realizes it until after the fact, then he is forced to change, that’s if he doesn’t want the same results. Because only a fool continues to do the same thing and expect a different result!


Sometimes we have to let people learn and grow on their own and from their own mistakes and stop trying to force people to change. The bottom line is; if they don’t change for themselves then it’s just a temporary fix to a lifetime problem. Now, if a man truly wants to change then he will change when he is ready to change, not because someone else wants him to change.

Unfortunately, most people, especially men, don’t change until something detrimental in their life happens that forces them to change. If you have a man who is constantly throwing shade to those who he thinks is not on his level because they don’t roll like he roll, with the fancy car, big house, flashy clothes and the women, when he loses his job or doe and can no longer afford those fancy cars, clothes and women, he will think twice before he throw shade again. This kind of thing can change a man’s perception on life. Or, if you have a man who takes his wife for granted until she finally leaves him, that will make him think twice about what’s important to him and what is a priority to him in life.

Bottom line is, you can’t make or force a person to change. A person has to change on their own and at their own pace. So you should either accept or reject that person as is, if you don’t have the patience to wait for them to change on their own. One thing for sure, two things for certain, if he really cares about you he will change own his own to keep you or he will be forced to change after you leave his ass because you had enough of his crap!!

I'm just saying.


C Double R

Is Your Friendship Value a Bentley or a Kia?

I was on Facebook and one of my friends had this posting on her page “Have you ever noticed that Rolls Royce and Bentley don't have commercials? REASON: They know the value of their product brings customers to them. LESSON: When you know your value, you don't have to beg people to like you, to be your mate, to spend time with you or to love you. Be confident in who GOD made you to be. Everyone can't afford the LUXURY of your friendship.” This resonated with me so much I had to write an article about it, so big ups to Roxy Tee for the post.


This is such a true statement. When you are a good hearted person people will automatically gravity to you, you don’t have to advertise and solicit your friendship. I truly believe you get back what you put out in this world. A lot of people love Bentleys but very few will ever own one because most can’t afford it, just like your friendship, many may want it but is everyone worthy of it and can they afford it? In essence, watch the company you keep and the people you allow into your space, even the ones who are perceived as being able to afford it because they may abuse it.

It is up to you to discover, embrace and protect your self-worth. Many may want to be your friend, mate or confidant, but are they worthy of your crème de la crème friendship? This is a question that only you can answer. Just remember, when a new car is driven off the lot, even a Bentley, it starts to depreciate. It’s up to you to determine who the owner will be. Will it be someone that appreciates you, detail you and keep you garage parked or will it be someone who will neglect you, be careless and crash you or even lose you because they couldn’t afford you from the beginning.

If you know your friendship is the crème de la crème, just like a Bentley, then be selective about who you let sit in the driver’s seat. If you don’t know and don’t appreciate your self- worth then you open yourself up to the general public and anyone can set in the driver’s seat.

Always remember your self-worth even when others seem to forget or even ignorant to it!


I’m just saying.

C Double R!

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Celibacy – Can It Hurt or Help a New Relationship?

I had a very interesting conversation with a male friend. I asked him what does he think when he meets a woman who tells him that she is celibate? His first response was that no man wants to date a woman who is celibate, especially an older man (30 something plus). So naturally I asked him why? He compared the scenario to the NBA. He said if his goal is to get to the championship by practicing but if the coach tells him from the gate that the team is not going to the championship then why the purpose of practicing? I actually understand and respected this argument, but does it make it right?


I personally think if a man meets a woman who is celibate then he should respect her even more because obviously she respects her body even to not give it away to every Tom, Dick and Harry. However, according to my friend a man sees this as too much work and most men will just walk away from the challenge, especially when it is readily available from someone else.

So can celibacy hurt or help a new relationship? I guess it all depends on who you ask. Some men are willing to put in the work if they really feel like the woman is worth the wait, while other men may see it as too much of a challenge and walk away as soon as the woman let it been known that she is celibate. Ladies, if a man does this then to me it seems like he was only in it for the sex anyway and he did you a favor by walking away.

Ladies, always stay true to yourself and your goals. Some women have more respect for their homes, cars and worldly possessions than they do for their own bodies, especially when it comes to sex. Ladies, realize that your body is a temple and every man that you met is not worth of your goods. Get to know a man before you sleep with a man. Find out his intentions before your give him your full body attention. Because what you may think is a prince in shining armor could be a lion in sheep’s clothing waiting to take your goods and run.

I’m just saying.

C Double R!

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