Thursday, July 28, 2011
C Double R’s Could Have Been Worst Theory
The Could Have Been Worst Theory is when you take a bad situation that you have experienced and compare it to a much worst situation, then count your blessings and keep it moving. For example, you may feel embarrassed and hurt if you found out that your mate/spouse was cheating on you. However, if you compare your situation to a person who found out that their mate/spouse was cheating on them and produced three children that you didn’t know about with this person you should count your blessings it’s not you and keep it moving!
Another scenario is if you found out that your mate/spouse blew all of the bill money on gambling and now you’re facing foreclosure. Compare your situation to a person who’s mate/spouse blew all of the bill money on gambling and drinking and take it out on you by physically abusing you. Count your blessings it’s not you and keep it moving!
I think some people are so focused on the negative in certain situations that they never see that it could have been worst. I think if we started to train our minds to adopt the Could Have Been Worst Theory a lot of people would be better off and could recover quicker from a bad situation, especially when it comes to our relationships.
Besides what don’t kills us only makes us stronger so when you find yourself in a bad situation just remember “it could have been worst”.
I’m just saying.
C Double R
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Posted by C Double R at 8:49 PM