Monday, August 9, 2010

Why Do Married Men Cheat?

First, let me say I can speak about it because I have lived through it. Over the years I have learned that a man can love you, kill and/or die for you, but is it doesn’t mean that he won’t cheat on you! Now that’s some real talk for your ass! Unfortunately ladies it’s in most men “make up” to cheat. The best way I can explain it is that most men have an insatiable desire for a variety of women. That’s it in a nutshell.

I had a friend who wanted me to blog about this topic. The first thing I said to the person is just because your husband cheat doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you and for the most part his ass will not leave you not unless you kick his butt out! As you all know I have several close male friends and I have this discussion with them constantly and the one common response is that they would never leave their wives for another woman no matter how good the sex is, period.

It has been explained to me that most married men cheat because they need a little variety when it comes to sex to keep the excitement in their marriage (Hey I don’t condone this in any way, but I have to give it to you raw!). I was told even if you have the main dish which could be filet mignon, lobster, or whatever your favorite main dish is, but you need the side dishes like potato or asparagus to go along with it to make the meal more flavorful. Another analogy that was used to explain why men cheat is ice cream, yes damn it I said ice cream! I was told take for instance your favorite ice cream is “vanilla”, but then you are introduce to a new flavor “Rocky Road” something that looks good and something you never had before and your curiosity gets the best of you and you try it and you like it. So here on out even though “vanilla” is still your favorite every now and again you have a taste for Rocky Road. But when asked what is your favorite ice cream you still respond “vanilla”.

The bottom line is that men are just wired differently than women. The saying men are from Mars and women are from Venus is so true! But let me warn you men, just because your woman or some women like myself, understand this and just because we expect it, doesn’t mean that we are going to accept it!

So let’s be clear, don’t think you can use “it’s in your make up” as an excuse for cheating. Let me give you a little advice, don’t let the taste of the Rocky Road ice cream substitute the vanilla ice cream because vanilla ice cream has been around since the existence of ice cream. Other flavors may come and go, but vanilla is a constant when it comes to ice cream.

I’m just saying..

C Double R!

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  1. Bobby Jackson:
    A thousand year old question.. Every answer will be different. A man should only get married when he Is just too tired to go outside & run the streets...

  2. Dedan Tolbert:
    We just did an entire show on this issue on thursday

  3. Burnett Glennel:
    Not mine....i don't cheat till the woman does if she still wanna b a couple but two wrongs don't make a right unless d man movin right out her life totally& "LOOKING@ D FRONT DOOR"...remember that!?!?!

  4. Tabius Smith:
    I feel every man has his reason for cheating. In my not so humble opinion, I feel cheating is the easy way out.

  5. Tabius I like the way you think unlike your buddy Dedan because you like me believe there is a reaction for every action, there is ALWAYS something that make people do what they do, that doesn't mean you co-sign, concur, accept or agree just simply means there is a reaction for every action!

  6. Nick Reed:
    You lived through this? Wow! Now shall we discuss the flip side of that coin sweety? Why do married women cheat? Its funny that women amost never want to look in the mirror when it comes to the whole truth. And I don't mean ha ha funny either!