Self Sexual Gratification

This is a taboo subject to most, probably because most people do it and hate to admit to it. But if you think about it, most of us had our first sexual experience with ourselves, especially men. Men are more open about masturbation than women. However, today women are more open when it comes to sex period.  Today more and more women are exploring their sexual side than ever before. More women are hosting sex parties, experimenting with sex toys, and are more open about how they please themselves sexually. Times have changed, especially when it comes to sex, masturbation and ways to please by self sexual gratification.

There is no such thing as abnormal masturbation, according to the sexologists there is no abnormal way to masturbate because we are such diverse creatures it would be hard to define normal. Women and men masturbate in various ways. It could be with their hands, rubbing up against something, using sex toys, or household object, wear special clothing, fantasize, use porn magazines or look in the mirror.

Masturbation is the safest form of sex. You can’t contract a sexual transmitted disease. However, men have to be careful to not use too much pressure, force or pull too hard or they could injury themselves and cause damage to the skin of the penis. Women who like to push their sexual side to the limit must also be aware of not only their sexual tolerance level, but also their body tolerance level. Some women can get caught up in the heat of the moment and could do damage to their internal walls. Some women like to test their sexual tolerance when their masturbating and go much larger than what they are accustom to and can cause themselves great harm.   

Solo sex could be good because it teaches one about their body. It could also improve your sex life with your partner. You can teach your partner how to please you through self exploration. However, too much solo sex could also lessen your desire to have sex with your partner. Excessive masturbation may make you alienate your partner and could cause serious problems in your sex life.

Self sexual gratification is a great way to please yourself, improve your sex life with your partner and a great way to test your sexual limits when done in moderation. So please yourself don’t tease yourself!

I’m just saying.

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