The five categories of women who date married men according to C Double R

First let me put this disclaimer out there, this is solely my opinion based on my experiences and observations of woman who date married men. My Masters Degree is in Organizational Leadership not Psychology, however, I do believe after reading this article most, if not all, of you will agree that I make some very validate points when it comes to the types of women that date married men.


The first woman is the desperate woman. Some women will take a man anyway they can get him, especially if they are young with low self esteem because these kinds of women are easily persuaded to fall into this kind of situation. Unfortunately, these are women who have not recognized their own self worth. This woman could also have the “Retaliation Syndrome”. This is when a woman subconsciously wants to hurt another woman because she has been hurt by this behavior in the past.

The second woman is the woman looking for a Sugar Daddy. These women are looking for sugar daddies to spoil them, but without a commitment. The married man is perfect because they are already committed but most married men who cheats like to spoil their mistresses.

The third woman is the career woman with limited time who’s looking for a little fun but is not ready to settle down. The career woman who dates married men is looking for the comfort of a man, but not a relationship. The married man is perfect because his time is very limited but he can give her wants she wants when she wants it without monopolizing her time.

The Fourth woman is the married woman who cheats with a married man. The married woman who cheats is looking to fulfill her needs that are not being fulfilled by her husband.

The final woman is the unassuming woman. This is the woman who meets the married man but unbeknownst to her she doesn’t know he’s married because he appears to be single (no ring, own apartment, accessible). However, once she finds out she’s so caught up that she continues to date him.

These are the five categories of women who date married men according to C Double R. If you recognized yourself in one of these categories you may want to ask yourself, is it worth it?

I’m just saying.

C Double R

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Are you in love with the man, sex, or the money?

Ladies had you ever had to ask yourself this question? Have you ever met a man that put it down so well in the bedroom that you felt like you were in love after the first? Or have you met a man that had money to spare and he spoiled you and you felt like you were in love at the three shopping spree? So the question becomes are you in love with the man, sex or love?


We as women are very influential, especially when it comes to a man that can offer us either good sex or spoil us in abundance. We become so caught up n the sexual escapades or shopping sprees that we no longer see the true qualities or characteristics of the real man. If he’s knocking our socks off in the bedroom on a regular and/or taking us on constant shopping sprees everything else becomes irrelevant. But at some point you will ask yourself is good sex and/or shopping sprees enough to keep me happy?

True love is not built on or formed from good sex and/or shopping sprees but on genuine feelings for one another. These are byproducts of being in love. The best test is to honestly ask yourself, if he lost all of his money could I still love him or if he could no longer put it down in the bedroom could I still love him? If the answer is “no” then you are not in love with the man, you are in love with what that man can do for you until he can no longer do it anymore for you.

So the very next time you meet that man that can throw it down in the bedroom or take you on shopping sprees and you think you’re in love ask yourself these questions? The answer just may surprise you.

I‘m just saying!

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Why pay for tuition when you can get free schooling?

If you had an opportunity to receive a free quality education as oppose to paying for it would you take it? Of course you would. However, education is not always in a classroom setting, sometimes education is all about the education of life experiences.


If you had an opportunity to learn from someone else’s mistakes to avoid making those mistake yourself why wouldn’t you pay attention? If a wise person offered you free good advice why wouldn’t you take it? Some people rather pay a high tuition as oppose to accepting a free quality education. Why is that? Some people just like wasting money, even when they can’t afford it.

My advice is, if you can get a free life’s lessons- learned Harvard education take it! Why would you put yourself in debt when you are offered free life’s lessons from seasoned professors? Sometimes we are so caught up on our own wants and needs we don’t see the big picture which may cause others to get hurt. Stop being an absentee student and come to school and pay attention when the teacher is teaching.

If someone is giving you advice based on their own experiences and they can see that you are about to go through, currently going through or have the chances of going through the same experiences make sure you pull out your notebook and take notes because I guarantee you at the end of the day there will be a test. It’s up to you whether or not you pass.

I’m just saying.

C Double R

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Bills Not Paid, But I Look Good! – Ghetto Fabulous Chick!

This is the woman that has the latest designer fashions, always taking trips, and going out spending money frivolously. On the outside one might envy her and think she got her stuff together, but little do they know! This is the chick that is constantly getting shut off notices for her utilities, maxed out credit cards, and possibly eviction notices. Now, I am not saying all Ghetto Fabulous Chicks fit this description, but a fair amount does.


The Ghetto Fabulous Chick is mainly concerned with her physical appearance and keeping up with the Joneses. Her top priority and job is to look fabulous when she steps outside. She can’t find money to pay her electric or gas bill, but she can find money to buy that Gucci bag. Some Ghetto Fabulous Chicks will live at home or with friends and family members because she prefers to spend her money on the latest fashion trends and not on rent or mortgage.

She craves attention and hate competition. If another woman gets more attention than she does in a public place she will try to do something to divert the attention away from the other woman and onto her. She may openly flirt with the men in the room, or prance around the room to get noticed. Hell, she figured if I took this much effort to look this good then damn it all eyes better be on me.

She may sometimes over do it. She may have a Gucci bag, YSL sunglasses, and Prada shoes. Or she may have a Gucci Hat, Gucci eyeglasses, a Gucci logo shirt and Gucci shoes. Basically, designer overkill, she wants everyone to know what designer she is wearing or carrying 24/7. She usually has the flamboyant nails and toes to match. She may wear big gaudy jewelry and colorful hair with two or three different shades.

How can you detect if you meet a Ghetto Fabulous Chick. Well without stating the obvious, it she has a new car and the gas tank is always on empty, that’s A Ghetto Fabulous Chick. If you go to her house and she has a bunch of shut off and final notices lying around, that’s a Ghetto Fabulous Chick. If she is carrying a $400 handbag with no money inside, that’s a Ghetto Fabulous Chick. If she is always fly and broke, that’s a Ghetto Fabulous Chick. If she always wants to go to fancy restaurants and never offers to pay, that’s a Ghetto Fabulous Chick. Fellas, these are all key signs of a Ghetto Fabulous Chick.

Some men are attracted to this kind of woman because they know she is fly and an attention getters. She will definitely seek attention anywhere she goes. However, Ghetto Fabulous Chicks tend to be needy women. They are always asking or begging a man to buy them this or that or to take them here or there, but never buys the man anything or take him anywhere. You ask why, because her ass is broke! This is a woman who lives way above her means. She is all about herself and if she has kids sometimes she put her desires and wants before her kids.

Another sign is, if this woman is always fly from head to toe and her kids have on run over shoes and shabby clothes, this is definitely a Ghetto Fabulous Chick, not to mention an inattentive mother .

Fellas, please take notice when you meet this kind of woman. Let’s not forget the sex! Oh, she will try to get you caught up with the sex. She will try her best to put it on you so good that you keep coming back for more, all the while she is sticking you for your paper. If she is fine and have a great body she will definitely use that to her advantage, because she knows she is your eye candy and in order to keep her you have to shower her with gifts.

She also likes to brag alot. She likes to let others know how much she paid for this and that and what car she drives and how many trips she’s taken and give you the location of each one. She usually lives in the hood, projects or subsidized housing this is why she is called the Ghetto Fabulous Chick. Her only aspiration is looking good at any cost. Ordinarily she doesn’t plan for the future and live day by day, she loves living in the moment. She usually dates thugs or men she knows that can afford her bad habits because obviously she can’t.

Men, so remember the BBD song “Poison” never trust a big butt and a smile because it will get you caught up every time. However, if this is your type of woman then go for it, I just hope you have a lot of money or ready to go for broke!.

I’m just saying..

C Double R!

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Are You Paying Your Dues or Playing the Fool?

We all have to pay our dues in life, whether it’s to advance in our careers, deal with family issues or to have a successful relationships. In our careers we may have to work for free to prove ourselves in order to get the job that we want. When it comes to our families we may have to put other things on the back burner to make sure our home life is right. When it comes to relationships it’s a little more complicated.


We all make mistakes in life, especially when it comes to relationships. A good relationship is worth fighting for especially if you believe it is worth keeping. However, you need to differentiate when you are paying your dues versus to just being used. We all have been in the doghouse after we messed up in our relationships, but how long should you pay for a prior deed that you have repeatedly apologized for and not just with words, but with actions?

If your mate repeatedly brings up your indiscretions or your foul ups and tells you that she/he will never forgive you but remains in the relationship, most likely you are being used. If this is the case you may want to cut your losses, take this one on the chin and keep it moving.

If you have shown that you are sorry for your wrongdoings and your mate is moving forward and is trying to put her/his trust back into you again but has you on a short leash then you’re paying your dues. If you have to check in from time to time, leave your cell phone out where your mate can see who’s calling or be home at a certain time, this is called the “probational” period and don’t fret eventually all will be forgiven, but you have to put in the time first before this can happen.

Don’t continue to stay in a situation where you know you’re being used and not paying dues because eventually you will be playing the part of a fool!

I’m just saying!

C Double R!

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Can Mr. Wrong finally be Mr. Right?

Ladies have you ever met a man who was everything you said you would never date but end up falling for him anyway? It’s funny how our priorities changes as we get older. I believe it has a lot to do with age, life and experiences. If you’re a professional woman, perhaps 10 years ago you could never see yourself with a blue collar man. Or if you’re a “good girl” you could never see yourself with a man with a “bad boy” reputation. Why 10 years later these men are now options to you?


As we grow and go through life experiences and mature the things we use to say we would never do we somehow find ourselves doing them with people we never imagined ourselves doing them with. The older you become the more you realize that everyone has a past, and sometimes not all good, but those experiences help shape them into the people they are today. Sometimes in life it is all about timing.

Just as you are not the person you were 10 years ago, most people aren’t the same people they were ten years ago. Most people grow and learn from their experiences which help them to evolve into the person they are today. Some people have to go through a metamorphosis stage in order for them to become the person they want to be in life. Unfortunately, sometimes to achieve this life goal some people have to go through some bad experiences in some cases that person may have been the bad person. But who are we to judge? All good bad have some bad in them and all bad people have some good in them it’s up to them to determine which one they want to be remembered as.

So before you ask yourself why is she with him, he’s a bad boy or why is she with him, he’s a trash man, you may want to ask yourself I wonder what it is that keeps them happy and together? You never know why two people are brought together in life. Could it be to learn and growth from one another? We will never truly know. But know this, sometimes things are just unexplainable and just are, just because they were meant to be.

I’m just saying.

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When You Fall For an Incompatible Sex Partner

Have you ever met that perfect guy? The guy that you have been looking for your whole life; he’s smart, sexy, funny, great job, your family loves him and he makes you smile every time you see him. You think he is the perfect guy until you are faced with having sex with him.


You have anticipated this moment for months. You have dreamt about this moment, you have fantasized about this moment, then the moment comes and it is nothing what you expected. There were no sparks, the sea didn’t part, the fireworks didn’t go off it was just bad sex! So now you are faced with the dilemma of deciding whether or not to stay in this relationship or give it up because of sexual incompatibility.

I must say, this is a difficult decision. Not too long ago I wrote an article entitled “Diamonds and Furs”. It was an article about women marrying men for money and not for love. This situation is different because the woman is in love with the man but there are no sparks in the bedroom.

My advice is to work it out! A good man is hard to find and especially one that you are compatible with in so many other ways. Bring sex toys into the bedroom, role play, try to be creative to bring that spark into you sex life. When all else fails seek professional help. Any relationship worth having is worth fighting for and keeping.

Ladies would you rather have an extraordinary lover that you don’t connect with in any other way or a man that you connect with on all levels, but just need a little tweaking in bedroom? You chose.

I’m just saying.

C Double R!


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Ladies, Demand Respect and You Will Get Respect!!!

Why is it that we can be strong and have a “no-nonsense” attitude when it comes to our children, job and family, but when it comes to our man some of us are deficient? Yes, ladies it is time to discuss this topic. It’s time for REAL TALK when it comes to our men.


We can run a business, a household, and be Suzy Homemaker, but when it comes to our man we don’t demand the respect that we deserve. As the old saying goes “A closed mouth doesn’t get feed”. And once you open your mouth make sure you say what you mean and mean what you say because actions speak louder than words. I have come to learn that a man will only do what you allow him to do. If you are all bark and no bite then your man will continue to act like a dog.

If you catch your man cheating or have evidence that he is cheating and you address it and he continues to do it, then the foolishness is on you. If you address it and warns him if it happens again you’re out and it happens again and you are still sharing the same bed then the foolishness is really on you! Because at that point you have given him carte blanche to do whatever with whomever because now he knows there are no consequences to suffer.

Ladies that’s why it is imperative to say what you mean and mean what you say! If you tell your man that you will leave his ass if he acts up and he acts up anyway then do it! If you tell your man that he has one more chance and that’s it and he messes up again, make it the last time and bounce! Yes, I said “again”, no one is perfect and even the best of the best mess up from time to time, but if it is something or someone worth having then trust me, it will be reflected in that person’s actions.

Men will only do what we allow them to do. Men will only get away with what we let them get away with. Trust me, if a man really wants to be with you and you display what you say, trust me, he won’t violate that trust or try to test you! We may not be able to change a man but we can definitely bring out the best in a man, sometimes I think we forget how much power we have when it comes to men.

So ask yourself ladies is your mouth close or are you getting feed, but not displaying what you’re saying?

Food for thought….

I'm just saying

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Is swinging more natural than monogamy?

There are only two species that are monogamous by nature. That is the killer whale and the penguin and they are both black and white. So therefore, there is no gray, it’s either black or white. It’s either you are or you’re not. The human species by nature was not born to be monogamous. Monogamy is a trained art and something that has to be constantly worked on because it is not a natural ability for humans. Which leads me to this question is swinging more natural than monogamy?


I believe most women are better at being monogamous because we are naturally emotional creatures and we usually have to have an emotional connection with a man before we become intimate with them. Men on the other hand are physical and lustful creatures by nature therefore it’s easier for them to become intimate with a woman without getting emotionally attached to them.

Swinging is more popular than most think. It’s becoming more acceptable in some relationships because not only does it keep the relationship exciting but in most cases it avoids the inevitable, cheating. If both partners are willing to participate in swinging in order to keep the flame alive in their relationship and to avoid outside cheating then who are we to judge them?

Is swinging more natural than monogamy? I believe from a natural perspective, yes. Most may not agree and I am not saying I condone or participate in swinging but I understand why couples choose to participate in it. It could possibly eliminate the outside cheating and it keeps the relationship appealing. If both partners like it, I love it!

I’m just saying.

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Being Big Doesn’t Guarantee the Gig!

Ok, so I was on Facebook the other day and one of my friends had a conversation about the power of sex. Basically he stated just because you know how to please your man in bed doesn’t mean he won’t leave you or cheat on you. Boy, did this start a conversation. So of course the ladies responded by saying just because you’re well-endowed and can lay pipe in the bedroom doesn’t mean that a woman won’t leave or cheat on you either???


Look, maybe back in the day if a woman got sprung out on good sex that was a license for the man to do as he pleased because he knew she wasn’t going anywhere. Now fast forward 20 years later, most women don’t tolerate that stuff, some even flip the script on men these days. If she has a man that can lay good pipe, but that’s ALL he can do, trust, she will have others to make up for his deficiencies. She will have one that can wine and dine her, one that will take her on vacations, one that will fix things around the house, and one that can offer to pay her bills. Notice how I said “offer” to pay her bills. Most women today can pay their own bills and are quite self sufficient, therefore, she doesn’t need a man to pay her bills, but will gladly take donations.

Nowadays women categorize their men like they categorize their shoes. If she feels like being wined and dined then she will call her Manolo Man. If she needs to have something fixed around the house she will call her Timberland Man. If she feels like getting freaky she will call her Come Sex Me Pumps Man. Women are quick to categorize and compartmentalize a man just like men do. So men, don’t think that just because you are laying good pipe that your woman won’t step out on you or close the door completely, WAKE THE FREAK UP!!

Forget the 90’s woman and start thinking about the new millennium woman!! Yes, we are no longer staying on the porch, we are stomping with the big dogs! We are doing it for ourselves and doing it big by ourselves! So don’t let the big penis fool you, because if that is the only thing you are offering, best believe, she has you categorized as the Come Sex Me Pumps Man and will only call on you when she is ready to get freaky, but your ass will stay in that size 9 shoebox until then!


I’m just saying…

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